
Recently, I reached out to one of EY’s senior executive based out of Poland. I simply introduced myself and sent out the queries. I didn’t expect I will receive the response the other day. The replies gave some amazing viewpoint on the queries I had. Additionally, it made me wonder, if someone would have reached out to me, would I have typed such long messages. I doubt that. I would have even not helped my alma mater folks.
But this experience totally changed my perspective. “A person can be helpful to a stranger without wanting anything in return.” Further, I realized that when one communicates to a stranger one is more relaxed as there is no judgmental fear. That’s power of the unconscious brain.
Why do not we develop the habit of helping without a reason when some asks us? Humans have the tendency to give away free advices but when it comes to help, the scenario really changes drastically. How can we develop this habit of helping anyone at least once a day?
As usual by taking small steps at a time. Attempting to change on a single day may not workout as we want in the long run. But as we progress with baby steps daily, there will be a drastic change in the long run. Before we go to bed, we can simply recall once as to whom we helped during the day. It can be our parents or a friend or a relative or a stranger. It is okay even if you didn’t get the opportunity to help. Recalling this question regularly will guide you automatically. You can start this today. Wondering how to get started, you can help me if you have no one to help by simply spreading this article with your closed ones or may be sharing it on your social networks. Thanks in advance for showering your love 😊
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