Shamelessness

When do we feel shameful?

When we are ashamed for things, we shouldn’t have done at first place, we feel shameful. However, at times we need to be shameless specially to ask for help.

We need help in our day to day life and we shouldn’t feel ashamed or guilty for that. At times we get stuck in the little things in life or couldn’t figure out the solutions for the challenges. We should move forward and take help. Without cooperation it is difficult to progress in the long run of life. Otherwise, we remain stuck on those little stuffs.  

Why do we feel guilty to ask for help?

At times we want to be independent, asking for little helps make us feel small or inferior in relative to other.  That’s why we refrain from asking help at times. However, just to remind you Jio took help of bank loans to grow. Modi took assistance of all BJP workers to help him win the elections. He didn’t win it all alone. It was contribution of thousands of people. But here we are still feeling guilty even to ask for little helps.

It’s okay to ask for help. Everyone does that. It is a normal thing. It doesn’t make you inferior since you are giving the opportunity to other to help you. Everyone doesn’t get the opportunity to help you. Simultaneously, we are learning to receive from others. If we don’t receive form other, they won’t become giver 😛 Being shameless is way more important for the progress. To achieve bigger things, we need more help from people around us and for that we need to be shameless to ask for those little helps. We need to accept the harsh reality that we cannot do all the things on these planets. Some are meant to be taken care of by others.