Before jumping straight to the topic, let’s discuss how do we form such bonds. Friendship is formed as a result of need. In school or college, we generally need help and we approach someone. Further, if the thoughts rhyme, we end up being friends. But certain friendship doesn’t continue for a long time whereas some does, why so?
You might have multiple friends in your school days, then high school and lastly in college. But as you progressed from school to high school you end up losing some of the school friends. Similarly, when we transit to college we end up losing high school friends. But what happens after college? We become occupied in work.
As a human being we have limited time, and generally cannot maintain all the friendship. We maintain which are important to us and keep on letting the rest dry as time flies. Most of the friendship dies not because of misunderstanding but because of communication gaps. There is no communication between two friends and as a result the friendship deteriorate with time. But how do we prioritize which one to let go and which one to keep. The process is slow and happens at a sub conscious level. We only contact those whom we trust or want to share anything. We just filter out rest of them unconsciously. At places there is only one sided communication and the other one has other priorities and cannot continue the friendship.
Adults have four to five good friends, with whom they feel connected and are trustworthy. If you have more than that, you are really lucky. After all friendship is a relation which is not based on birth chart.
You can still reach out to your loving friends today. You are just a phone call or whatsapp away!
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